Sin and consequenses

The terrible consequenses of sin are coming to a head in J---'s life. He wants to live in sin and in overindulgence. I have learned over the many years in which I have had consequenses to the stupid and sinful things I have done, that there is no escaping some consequenses. The sad part about this is that some consequenses hurt others for a very long time. How do you fix those? How can you fix the kids who suffer because of infidelity, abuse, misuse, hatred, war, and sin. There is no way. I realize I have done so many things, so many terrible sinful things that have affected my children in adverse ways. I see the children in my life suffering because of the sins of their father and mother, because of the hurfulness of past misdeeds. Poor little ones. Poor, poor little ones.